Showing posts with label Compassion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Compassion. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Judgement of Others

Just sharing some of my thoughts today.

Who made up the rule that the most visible sins were the worst?  Certainly not God, Jesus made it real clear that God was concerned with our heart.  Wait, that is INSIDE, where no one can see it!!  Who am I to decide what each person should work on next?  Me who is so imperfect whom God was SO patient with and continues to be today?  God has a plan for each of our lives.  He knows what comes next, He knows which order those pieces of our "self" need to melt away and how.  Let’s leave His work in others to Him and quit second guessing Him.  Let’s work on being sensitive to what He is saying to each of us, in what ways He is urging us to love others.  Love Him, love others, those were His commands to us.  He said HE would finish the good work He started in us, and them too so stay out of His way.  Are we to judge someone else’s employee?  Does it matter what you think of Farmer John’s employee if he is thrilled with them?  We, each of us, are God’s favorite, the apple of His eye and if one of us is judging another, are we not setting ourselves up to be judged by others as well?  Judge not lest you be judged in Matthew 7:1 also tells us that if we judge others harshly that is how we will be judged.  I pretty much want to be as merciful as possible in my judgments of others because I really need that mercy when I am judged!

If you can keep all of the law then go on your merry way, you don’t need a savior, at least not until reality hits you in the face.  Make no mistake, it certainly will too!

When you find yourself wanting to ridicule others or vent about them try this-earnestly ask God to show you His heart for that person.  You will know He has answered when you start to feel as if you are in their shoes, feeling their suffering and overwhelmed with compassion.  That is how our God feels about them, and about us when we are messing up and hurting.  That is your clue to pray for them.

Everyone hurts, all you see that you find a source of irritation is someone carrying a burden that you surely do not want to carry.  Perhaps that burden has overwhelmed them at that moment and they have acted or reacted in a way that irritated you.  

I personally think that most people are so terrified of looking full on into the face of their own issues that they look outside at everyone else and their issues.  All this time not realizing they cannot clearly see the issues of someone else through the tainted lens of their own issues.  I believe our Savior said something about removing a beam from your own eye so you can see the remove the splinter in another's?  Maybe He was onto something.  ;)

Monday, May 21, 2012

The God Who Sees Me

Last week I was reading a book about God and how He is the God who sees us.  (The lady writing the book had been reading about how Hagar had been the first to call God the God who sees me when she was escaping Sarai and God heard her cries. )  This lady found herself asking God to show her in some way that He saw her every need, truly saw HER as she was searching for some lip balm in her purse.  She offhandedly said she could sure use some lip balm.  If I remember it correctly when she got back to her desk someone had left her a gift of lip balm.  Every time she gets lip balm now it is a reminder to her that God saw even that small need, He truly sees HER personally.

Of course after reading this I was thinking how very special that was and asking God could He not show me somehow really cool like that.  The internal dialog went something like this.....
Me-That is just too special, I would so love something similar that would say just to me how much you love me and see my needs.
God began reminding me of the stars and the many things He had taught me about His love with them and the doves that come to me during my prayer times and watch me, they even hatched their babies right by the gate in the cactus.
Me-Yes but those are there all the time and could just be coincidences.
God reminded me His love was just like that...there all the time and there are NO coincidences.
Me-forgive me Lord, you are so right and those things are so very special to me and do remind me of your love and teach me so much.  I do love you so very much, thank you!

Fast forward to the next day.  Brian asked me to go watch a movie with him that was very very loud and action packed.  We both enjoyed the movie a lot but I was very much looking forward to some quiet time when we left.  Brian wanted to go to Walmart first.  Oh dear...I do hate going to Walmart!  I tend to feel the emotions of folks around me and I am telling you right now there are NOT many happy people in Walmart!  to say the least I was definitely overstimulated and craving quiet time by the time we left Walmart.  Brian asked if I would like to go the back way or the freeway going home.  I told him the least traffic way!  As we started down one of the dirt roads going the back way home my mouth dropped open.  The road was absolutely covered with doves!!  I am not exaggerating when I say this.  Brian actually had to slow way down to keep from hitting any of them.  Suddenly I felt as if I was immersed in God's love and every bit of anxiety and craving for quiet time left me.  I felt as if God was asking me what I thought of this lil "coincidence" as He laughed and reminded me that seeing doves was definitely still one of His ways of telling me He sees me.   What an amazing God He is!!  I am so very blessed!